Picking Up Women Guides

Okay, here's where many men make the biggest mistake. They go to a woman and they try to get the attraction right from "Hello" to "Can I get your number?" in one shot... and they ponder why they get shot down. Get a woman number.

Fireworks with females technique comes off as desperate and causes the woman to think that the man is interested in her, which he is.

Even so, building appeal with women is all about keeping you guessing and making yourself a challenge to them. How can you do this right from the first interaction? Women Gets What They Want

Easy... you deal with her, talk to her very briefly, and walk away. Then get and talk to someone else for 10 or 15 minutes, and if you're intrigued in her, go back and deal with her again.

What you'll notice is that by the second approach, two ideas will have happened: she'll be at least slightly curious about you and why you didn't do what some other guy did to her that night...ask for her number on the first approach.

You'll also find that you'll both be a lot more comfortable with the interaction.

Second, Use Jealousy

Jealousy is a huge motivating factor when it comes to making attraction and setting yourself apart from the dozens of other men who are opposing for a woman's attention.

If a woman has any kind of concern in you at all, seeing you with another woman (even talking to one) will build a feeling of urgency in her.

So after you've approached her the second time, ask a little bit longer...but go and visit with another woman who you're serving with. Trust me, this will stir the emotions of jealousy and make girls concerned take on a more active stance in pursuing YOU.

Engage Her and Build Jealousy

Once you've spoken to her for a while, ask her to dance, to play a game of pool or darts or any different kind of activity which doesn't involve too much talking.

This will get her used to being around you without additional tension of having to carry a talk. Also, if the activity involves some individuals, you can take that opportunity to mention her to some of your friends...or even other women who you've met.

Taking Things to the Next Level

Take her immediately to a place where you can have some breakfast and talk. By the end of all this, you'll have an open door to get her phone number or to send her a text the next day. Whatever you do, don't try to bring her home.

Even if she agrees, women who sleep with men immediately often get obsessed by with blame and grow cold towards that man.

Rather, get her phone number and make a short-term sacrifice to gain a long-term opportunity with her later.